When I was a kid, I had an abusive stepfather...
06/04/05 07:02 PM
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_Willow
Reged: 04/06/05
Posts: 2090
Loc: Canada.
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who verbally shot me down to nothing and often smacked me(really, only once or three times in a moment, not AWFUL) but he apparently smacked my mom around(we never saw it)....and since that time, anyone so much as raising their voices to me, or any personal conflict, causes major tummy aches. I remember not eating for days after boyfriends of a week broke up with me. Or having D for days after because of the killer cramps.
Yeah, so aggressive people, any confrontation, watching stuff like WWF, etc...scares the poop out of me, for REAL!!
Anyhow, sista(sounds funny, I'm so white...) I'm there for you, and sadly, am sort of relieved there's another social butterfly out there with a sensitive side.
By the way- toughness-I never cried during my 40 hour labour with my daughter, and almost worked on an appendix flare,but I'm a feeler hard core. It's almost to a fault with my students-if they're mistreated at home, i want to smack the parents several times and take the kid home and love them properly. Hence why I'm a teacher, and not a vet(and thank God for my allergies for that!!)
-------------------- Keep on keepin' on...
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