By the sheer number of responses to your post - I hope you feel the support you have here. Many of us have been down these difficult roads. You'll make it. Try to remind yourself that.
As for the pill - I waited until I got my IBS stable before I tried getting pregnant. You know what? It only took a few months and I have 2 b1eautiful1 children. My IBS pretty much disappeared while pregnant. See, you can manage that, too. God will be there for you and see you through it when the time is right.
As for the chicken - here's a variation: lightly coat chicken breasts with fat free mayonnaise or lightly spray with PAM. Dip in plain bread crumbs. Bake 400degrees till done. Can't get much safer - and it's better than boiled. Keep your chin up, sweetie. You're going to get through this and you WILL feel better.
-------------------- Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.