Hello Heather; I am new to this website but I wanted to write to offer support. I also have 2 daughters and often feel that I am a bad mom because I can't take them shopping or out to a movie if I'm having a bad day. Believe it or not our most special times is when I make us all a cup of tea and we sit and talk. Even on my worse days I can usually manage that much. This IBS is tough but try to focus on the fact that this wonderful website is filled with caring people who want to help. Best wishes for better days ahead. Tomorrow is another day! Lauriea